A Time To Reflect
28
March
From time to time I really have to wonder in this world who really cares about you? People can be so cruel and conniving, they seek to hurt you when you have not even done a thing to them. Funny how human nature is, the desire to hurt others yet you want to be loved. They want to know what makes you happy (don’t tell them), because they may get jealous and try to take that away. It is hard to trust anyone now-a-days and its hard to open up and express yourself.
Don’t get me wrong, you do have to trust someone to let out all of those pent up feelings inside or else you might go crazy. That person however has to be a very close friend one who holds you in high regards and vice versa. You will truly have to know the person for a few years to let out all of those skeletons. Question is though who can you trust? You would think you have someone at your side and then they leave you high and dry for the vultures. You are thinking that your secret is safe but then it is out in the streets.
I am just reflecting on life, thinking only in rare cases you will find someone who cares for you besides your mother and yourself. When you have someone who cares they are a gem treat them like one.It is not about the money, money cannot buy happiness. Taking care is not buying things. Taking care is showing genuine concern for the other person. Listening to their problems. It means more to someone if you just listen.
Everyone needs a friend but its finding the right friend that matters. Not every friend is a friend. You will know a friend when they encourage you and enjoy when you are successful. A friend is not one to get jealous and try to take you down because you are better. Reflect on that.








Hope you think I am your friend
You are my friend
to quote the great whodini.. ♫ “friends….how many of us have them..”♫
I’ll be your friend vandy!!
Thank you
…and a good friend will help you move!
and friends don’t watch you fall they actual catch you before you hit the ground